We do not need calendar invites. We do not need to set up time to chat. We do not need to put time on the calendar for coffee. We do not need back and forth emails or cc’ing people or anything.
Just text me, fb me, whatever me. See if I am free to chat. And if I am not free text me later and I will make some time.
I’m trying my best to be more spontaneous and way less formal.
I am trying my best to say yes to more things that sound fun and no to more things that do not sound fun.
I want to make things way less friction-ful. There are so many things that I do, and I think others do, that are formalities and not really better for me.
A full calendar is not the goal.
Meaningful days are.
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